April 30- Vashti: Standing for Dignity

 Theme: Knowing When to Take a Stand for Self-Respect and Values

Corry Chambers
Shepherdess,
Women’s Ministries Director, CIC

 Scripture: “For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.” 

1 Corinthians 6:20 (NKJV)

In the year 2000 I finished teachers’ college and received a letter which stated that I was a nominee for the student of the year award but one of the criteria for receiving the award would be attendance at the graduation ceremony. It was inevitable, graduation was held on the sabbath and so I did not attend. It was my belief that I should not attend such functions on the Sabbath. In a world that often pressures women to conform, compromise, or shrink themselves to fit into others’ expectation, it takes courage to stand up for dignity and self-respect. 

Queen Vashti is a lesser-discussed biblical figure, yet her story carries a powerful lesson for women today. In Esther 1, King Xerxes ordered Vashti to appear before his guests to display her beauty. Though the Bible doesn’t explicitly say why, many scholars believe his command was degrading—perhaps he wanted to parade her in an immodest way before a drunken crowd. Vashti refused. She knew her worth, and she chose dignity over compliance, even though it cost her the throne.

Vashti’s story reminds us that sometimes taking a stand comes with sacrifice. Yet, God honors those who choose integrity over convenience.  Vashti’s story is a reminder that it is more important to take a stance for God than to please earthly rulership. While her departure made way for Esther to rise and fulfill God’s divine plan, Vashti’s courage still speaks volumes—she teaches us that no position, relationship, or expectation is worth more than our self-respect.

As women, we often face situations where we must decide between pleasing others or upholding our values. Maybe it’s: 

At work – Being pressured to compromise integrity for career advancement.

In relationships – Feeling the need to stay silent in toxic friendships or romantic relationships for fear of losing them.

In social settings – Facing expectations to dress, speak, or behave in ways that conflict with your faith and values.

Like Vashti, there may be a cost when you stand firm. You might lose opportunities, friendships, or approval. But remember, your worth is not determined by what others demand of you—it is defined by God, who calls you His daughter. Claim the title with pride and hold your head high because you are a daughter of God.

 

If you find yourself in a situation where your dignity is on the line, ask yourself: Am I honoring God with my choices? Choosing self-respect isn’t a dishonor to God—it’s wisdom. And when you take a stand for what is right, trust that God has a greater plan, just as He did in the story of Esther. So hold firm to your values, affirm your dignity and say no, with courage and conviction, knowing that God will be with you and it is He who will sustain you.

Prayer:

Father, give me the courage to stand firm in my values, even when it’s difficult. Help me to honor You in my decisions, knowing that my worth comes from You alone. Strengthen me to walk in dignity, trusting that You have a purpose for my life. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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