February 25: Choosing Love Over Anger
Choosing Love Over Anger Scripture: “Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:” James 1:19 KJV If we are honest as women, if we were to place hearing, speaking, and wrath in order, it might not look like this Scripture. Sometimes speaking comes first. Sharon Campbell-Danvers Sometimes wrath comes first. And often… hearing comes last. We react before we reflect. We respond before we understand. We speak before we truly listen. James gives us a divine order: Swift to hear. Slow to speak. Slow to wrath. Notice the positioning. Hearing is first. Wrath is last. But many times, we reverse it. I have had moments where I became upset and addressed the matter immediately, without first listening to understand. Not listening to learn. Not listening to gain context. Listening only long enough to defend my position. And after the full story unfolded, after clarity came, I have felt that sinking feeling. I wish I had listened mo...