April 11: Harbour of Rest
by: Tamelia Barriffe Key Text : Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28 Sometimes we become so focused on the current behavior that we never stop to consider the root behind it. We correct. We respond. We react. But we do not always pause to ask: “What is driving this?” Many of us, in painful moments, look for reassurance. We want something to ease the discomfort quickly. “It won’t happen again.” “Do you still care?” “Can we fix this?” But reassurance often lives at the surface and healing begins much deeper. Take for example a situation where trust is broken in a relationship. The husband confesses. He apologizes. He explains what he did, his actions, his choices, where he went.He expresses regret. But the wife’s focus is not on reassurance. She is not asking for comfort or quick answers. She is not even centered on replaying the event itself. Instead, she leans into a deeper question: “What led you here?” “What was happening within yo...