October 14: Celebrated Leaders, Wayward Children

Celebrated Leaders, Wayward Children

Key Text

“Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”
Proverbs 22:6

At first glance, the statement “celebrated leaders, wayward children” may sound paradoxical. Many times, we see leaders who have served faithfully in the church and community, living lives of integrity and devotion. Yet, their children may not walk according to the precepts of God.

Our natural tendency is to judge quickly. We measure the children against the reputation of their parents, who may have been exceptional examples of faith. We ask ourselves, “How could this happen?” Sometimes we conclude that something must have gone wrong in the home, that the foundation was weak, or that the example was inconsistent.

But is this always the case? Does a child’s rebellion automatically mean that the parents failed? Scripture gives us another perspective.

Biblical Insight

Consider the story of the Prodigal Son in Luke 15:11–32. The father in the parable is portrayed as loving, wise, and generous. He provided for his children, set a godly standard, and maintained a household of faith. Yet one son still chose rebellion. His decision to leave home and squander his inheritance was not a reflection of a failed father but of a personal choice.

The lesson here is clear. Even in the best homes, children will make their own decisions. Parents, including those who lead in ministry, are responsible for laying a strong foundation, but they cannot dictate the choices their children will ultimately make.

Mandate for Leaders and Parents

The responsibility of leaders and parents is not to guarantee outcomes but to provide the right foundation. This means:

1. Living out consistent examples of faith and integrity

2. Pointing children toward God daily through teaching and prayer

3. Trusting the Spirit of God to continue working in the hearts of children, even if they wander

Proverbs 22:6 reminds us that the seeds planted in childhood remain. Even if children depart for a time, the truth remains alive within them, waiting for the Spirit of God to bring them back to remembrance.

Application

This paradox reminds us that leadership does not make one immune to family struggles. Instead, it calls leaders to humility, patience, and grace. It also challenges the church community to avoid harsh judgments. Instead of criticizing leaders whose children have strayed, we are called to pray with them, encourage them, and support their families.

As believers, we must remember that salvation is personal. God has no grandchildren, only children. Each individual must make his or her own decision to follow Christ. Yet the faithful example of parents and leaders is never wasted. It is a light and a testimony that God can use to guide wayward children back home.

Closing Prayer

Heavenly Father,
We thank You for the gift of leadership and for parents who labor faithfully to raise their children in Your ways. Give leaders strength to model integrity and wisdom to guide their families with love. For every wayward child, we ask that You would stir their hearts and bring them back to You. Teach us as a community not to judge but to stand in prayer and encouragement for families who struggle. May we always trust in Your timing and Your grace. In Jesus’ name, Amen.