October 25: Marital Challenges

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Marital Challenges

Anonymous Writer, Bodden Town SDA


Scripture:

Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee because he trusteth in thee.
— Isaiah 26:3 (KJV)

My marriage was in trouble. I was afraid and totally helpless to change the situation. You can’t force someone to love you and care for you if they don’t want to. I was concerned about the impact on my daughter if divorce were the outcome. I prayed for a miracle. I prayed that my husband would have a change of heart, a transformation. . . . No change. Just more lies, more hurt, more brokenness. I pleaded with God. What is your will, Lord? If it’s a divorce, I know you will be by my side. But He said no to divorce. “Lord, when will my mourning turn into dancing?” . . . I started waking up at three o’clock in the morning to pray about my situation and for peace. I listened to gospel music and read the Bible, hoping for a quick solution. But the solution did not come quickly.

One day, I realized that, although I was no closer to a solution, and my marriage was still in a mess, I had found peace. While my situation was still in progress and no solution was in sight, I gained a great deal more – peace, joy, and faith in the midst of my storm. I met Jesus himself and was able to say, 'Thank God for my storm,' because it brought me closer to my God.

Tips

  • Develop your relationship with God. Keeping your eyes on God will fill you with hope and peace.

  • You cannot change your spouse; that’s the job of the Holy Spirit.

  • Love yourself. Loving and caring for yourself is vital to your mental health.

  • Let God meet your deepest needs. He alone satisfies.

Prayer:

Heavenly Father,
Thank You for being my peace in the middle of life’s storms. When relationships crumble and hearts break, help me to keep my eyes fixed on You. Teach me to trust Your timing, lean on Your strength, and rest in Your promises. Fill my heart with Your peace that surpasses understanding and remind me that You are always working for my good.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Comments

  1. Anonymous25 October 2025 at 12:02

    This devotion is talking personally to me. Amen

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