February 15: Forgive from the Heart

 Forgive from the Heart

Scripture Focus: Matthew 18:21–22 (KJV) 

By Nicola Blackmore

“Then came Peter to Him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times?

Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.”

Devotion

An object lesson for forgiveness can be found in a simple gift—thread. When fabric is torn, it cannot be restored by force or anger. It is mended gently, stitch by stitch, with patience and care. Forgiveness works the same way. It does not ignore the tear, but it lovingly brings what is broken back together.

Forgiveness is a gift God gives not only to restore relationships, but to heal the heart of the one who releases it. Like thread pulling scattered pieces into one, forgiveness strengthens what once felt fragile. Without it, wounds remain open, and distance quietly grows.

I often find myself being the mender—the one trying to resolve conflicts when they arise. At times it feels as though if I do not find that string to tie everyone together, things may fall apart. Yet God continues to remind me that forgiveness is not about holding everything together in my own strength, but about allowing His grace to flow through me.

This truth is often revealed in simple ways.

There is a lesson reflected in the hearts of children.

They forgive easily, releasing hurt almost as quickly as it comes.

When forgiveness is given, their spirits grow light,

their joy returns, and peace settles in their hearts.

But when forgiveness is delayed, even for a moment,

joy quietly slips away.

Hearts grow heavy,

and the burden of holding on becomes clear.

In this gentle truth, we are reminded that forgiveness sets the heart free,

while unforgiveness slowly steals the joy God desires us to live in.

Ellen G. White writes: “Nothing can justify an unforgiving spirit. He who is unforgiving cuts off the very channel through which alone he can receive mercy from God.” (Christ’s Object Lessons, p. 251)

Forgiveness does not deny the pain it chooses healing over bitterness. When we forgive from the heart, God begins stitching peace into places once marked by hurt. In forgiving again and again, our hearts are softened, restored, and renewed by His grace.

Jesus’ words remind us that forgiveness has no limit. It is not measured by numbers, but lived through obedience and love.

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the gift of forgiveness that heals broken hearts and restores relationships. Teach us to forgive from the heart, even when it is difficult. Remove any bitterness that weighs us down, and replace it with Your peace. Help us reflect Your grace as we forgive others, just as You have forgiven us. In Jesus’ name, Amen.