January 18: Faithful Friendships

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Faithful Friendships

Author: Shaqueena Danvers

Theme: Building Godly, Supportive Relationships

Proverbs 17:17 says, “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” This verse beautifully captures the essence of faithful friendships, emphasizing love, support, and unwavering loyalty, especially during difficult times.

As we reflect on examples of godly friendships in the Bible, we see a common thread: faithfulness, support, and godliness. These friendships remind us of the relationships God desires us to build and nurture.

Examples of Faithful Friendships in the Bible

  1. Elijah and Elisha
    Elisha’s unwavering commitment to Elijah reflects true loyalty and faithfulness. Even when Elijah urged him to stay behind, Elisha refused, showing his devotion to their shared purpose in serving God (2 Kings 2:2-6).

  2. David and Jonathan
    Despite the complexities of their situation, Jonathan supported David, even to his own detriment. His sacrificial love and unwavering loyalty are a powerful testament to godly friendship (1 Samuel 18:1-4).

  3. Ruth and Naomi
    Ruth’s declaration to Naomi, “Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay” (Ruth 1:16), exemplifies steadfast love and faithfulness, especially in the face of adversity.

  4. Paul and Timothy
    Paul mentored Timothy, offering encouragement and spiritual support. Their relationship highlights the importance of building others up in faith (2 Timothy 1:2-6).

What do these friends have in common?

  1. God at the Centre:
    These relationships were rooted in a shared faith and commitment to God. Their reliance on God for guidance, strength, and purpose strengthened the bond between these individuals.

  2. Sacrificial Love:
    Faithful friends often go beyond their comfort zones to support each other. Whether it was Jonathan risking his life for David or Ruth leaving her homeland for Naomi, these friendships involved selflessness.

  3. Encouragement and Accountability:
    Paul encouraged Timothy in his ministry, while Elisha pushed forward in his calling because of Elijah’s mentorship. Faithful friends build each other up spiritually and emotionally.

  4. Support in Adversity:
    True friends emerge during trials. Ruth stayed with Naomi when others left, and Jonathan stood by David despite Saul’s hatred.

Am I a Faithful Friend?

Often, it is easier to critique others for not being faithful friends than to reflect on our own shortcomings. Faithful friendships begin with us. Faithful friendships require effort and intentionality. Building strong bonds involves making time, offering support, and being reliable.

  • Self-Reflection Questions:
    • When was the last time I demonstrated faithfulness to a friend?
    • How often do I pray for my friends?
    • Do I celebrate my friends’ successes wholeheartedly?

If you, like me, find yourself more comfortable being alone or less expressive in showing care, challenge yourself to step out of your comfort zone. Ask God to help you build relationships that honour Him more intentionally.

Application and Commitment

  1. Seek God’s Guidance:
    Ask God to help you identify and nurture faithful friendships. Pray for wisdom to build relationships that glorify Him.

  2. Be Intentional:
    Reach out to a friend today—send a message, make a call, or pray for them. Let them know they are valued.

  3. Model Christlike Love:
    Faithful friends imitate Jesus, the ultimate Friend, who laid down His life for us (John 15:13). Strive to embody His sacrificial love in your friendships.

  4. Seize Opportunities:
    Do not let opportunities to show faithfulness slip away. Be the friend who listens, encourages, and uplifts.

Prayer

Dear Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. Help me to be a faithful and godly friend, reflecting Your love in my relationships. Teach me to be selfless, intentional, and prayerful. May my friendships glorify You and draw others closer to You. In Jesus’ name, 

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