July 6: Resisting Envy and Strife

 Resisting Envy and Strife

Theme: Avoiding Division and Seeking Peace

Sister Arlene Johnson
Kings Seventh-day Adventist Church

Scripture of the Day:
James 3:16 (NIV)
“For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.”

Let’s Talk About It:
Let’s be honest—envy and comparison are struggles many of us face, even when we don’t mean to. Maybe it starts with scrolling through social media or hearing someone’s exciting news. Suddenly, you’re questioning your own life, wondering if you're falling behind or missing out.

James 3:16 gives us a clear warning: Where there is envy and selfish ambition, things quickly fall apart. It doesn’t just affect our hearts—it spills out into our homes, friendships, churches, and communities.

As women of faith, we’re called to something different. We’re called to seek peace, not competition. Unity, not division. That doesn’t mean ignoring your feelings—but it does mean bringing them to God and letting Him remind you of your worth.

Leah and Rachel were sisters, both married to Jacob, and both caught in a painful web of envy and rivalry. Leah longed to be loved like Rachel was. Rachel longed for the children Leah had. Instead of supporting each other, they competed—each trying to “one-up” the other. It led to years of heartache- Genesis 29–30.

Their story is a powerful reminder that comparison can rob us of peace, and envy can poison even the closest relationships. Imagine how different things might have been if they had embraced their unique roles in God’s story and encouraged one another instead.

Take a moment to sit with these questions:

Have I allowed envy or comparison to affect how I treat someone in my life?

Are there places where I feel the need to prove myself rather than rest in who God says I am?

How can I be a peacemaker instead of a competitor in my relationships?

Prayer:

Father God,
Thank you for loving me exactly as I am. Help me to let go of comparison and envy, and to stop striving in my own strength. I want to be a woman who builds others up, not tears them down. When I’m tempted to compare or compete, remind me that my value is found in You, not in achievements or approval. Help me to be an agent of peace and unity in the lives around me. Fill my heart with contentment, grace, and joy in all You’ve given me.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.

There’s more than enough room in God’s kingdom for all of us to shine. You don’t have to compete for love, approval, or purpose—you already have them in Christ. Let’s be women who cheer each other on, walk in peace, and trust God’s perfect plan for our lives.